Forget the Turkey: Pass Your Kids the Financial Intelligence
CFP Board Consumer Advocate Offers Advice for Parents on Teaching Children about Finances
With the arrival of November comes a whole new mind-set, dominated by thoughts of family and friends gathered around a table laden with turkey, stuffing and pumpkin pie. As parents seek to instill in their children a sense of gratitude this Thanksgiving, they should make sure to pass along something else children will be thankful for when they are older – financial intelligence.
Just as with thanks and sharing, Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards (“CFP Board”) Consumer Advocate Eleanor Blayney, CFP® stresses that lessons in financial responsibility must first be taught at home.
“Our high-tech culture of convenience and consumption teaches children lessons they would be better off not learning,” says Blayney. “Kids see plastic as free money, not as debt. Credit card limits work less as restraint and more as invitation to spend up to the limit amount. Gift cards, Groupons, and digitized icons on smartphones are now the new currency, but unlike bills and coins, they are minted for one purpose only: spending.”
In the latest installment of CFP Board’s “Let’s Talk Planning” blog and the seventh feature in its “Financial Planning is for Everyone” series, Blayney shares steps that parents can take to ensure they raise “a child with good financial sense.”
- Think carefully about what financial responsibility would look like in your child. Then determine how you would score yourself on these measures —because until you stand tall financially, it’s much harder to get your kids to straighten up and take notice.
- Look for opportunities in your day to turn routine money transactions into teachable moments for your kids. Talk about the role of banks as places to keep money safe and earn interest or explain to older children why you prefer your chosen bank or credit union to another.
- Get your kids involved in household money management. Enlist their help in paying the bills, where they can identify what the bills are for, and circle the amounts payable and the due dates. This provides them with an appreciation of routine living expenses.
- Make money lessons fun and purposeful. Give them a “budget” for a component of the family vacation or even holiday shopping. Invest them in the process, and you may be surprised and pleased with their creativity and financial decision-making.
- Stress the fundamentals. Most personal financial decisions require an understanding of just two essential principles: the concept of “opportunity cost” and the relationship between risk and return. Without a mastery of these concepts, all the education in the world on saving strategies, investing opportunities or spending management is not necessarily going to translate into smart financial decisions.
“As parents, we have aspirations for our kids. But unless we go further, and provide them with the financial literacy tools to be able to manage their income, all the investment and sacrifice to get them educated may be for naught,” Blayney advises. “Helping your kids learn simple money lessons early on can go a long way toward fostering their financial success in the future.”
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