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CFP Board eNewsletter | May 2006
Let's Talk about Debt
Mom's Money Lessons
Survey: From What Source Have You Learned the Best Money Lessons?
Profile: Mercer Bullard, Founder and President of Fund Democracy
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Let's Talk about Debt

Talking to your parents about money can be like talking to your parents about sex: awkward, tense and ultimately not very informative. My folks never sat me down for a chat about the birds and the bees, nor did we ever gather at the kitchen table for a heart-to-heart about budgeting and compound interest. I suppose they figured that in both cases experience would be the best teacher. And so it was. But if there ever was a time for parents to prepare their kids for the cold, hard facts about money, that time is now. Because young people today face financial challenges their parents never had to face. Those challenges can be summed up in a single word: debt, primarily from student loans and credit cards.

Back in the 1970s, only 28% of jobs required some degree of college education; in today's outsourced information economy, the figure is 60%. And in just the past five years the cost of public college education has increased by 46%. As tuition goes up and the availability of financial aid goes down, more and more people are turning to student loans to fund their undergraduate and graduate work. And they're using credit cards to pay for some of the other necessities of modern life: cell phones, computers, rent, utilities and, in some cases, even health care. The result: the average debt of a public college grad in 2004 was $15,622, up from $9,798 in 1990. (The average debt for private school grads was $22,581, up from $15,054 in 1990.) Add to that credit cards in the red to the tune of around $2,500, and recent grads are saddled with very scary bills before they've even tossed their tasseled graduation hats into the air. "We've never done this to a generation of young people before," Heather Boushey, senior economist at the Center for Economic and Policy Research told Money Magazine. "We've never put a generation in their 20s in debt they can't get out of before they started their work life."

Things were a lot easier, or at least more straightforward, for previous generations. You worked hard, saved, made sure your kids had a better shot at success than you did, and you counted on your company pension to see you through retirement. Those realities don't apply for many young people today, when the starting salaries they can expect to earn in their first jobs won't even service their debts, much less allow them to put something away for a rainy day. A lot of people decide they have to put off plans for marriage, home ownership or starting a family. "Young people are freaking out," says Carmen Wong Ulrich, author of Gener@tion Debt: Take Control of Your Money-A How-To Guide. "So much has changed over the past 30 years. Life is more expensive and kids are overwhelmed with debt at such an early stage. Many parents are facing these challenges for the first time, too, and are often less able to help as they see their own pensions come under pressure."

So what's a young person to do? Many young people try to rein in their expenses by going back home to live with their parents, earning them the not entirely flattering moniker 'the boomerang generation.' As a result, parents are confronting another-mouth-to-feed scenarios rather than empty nest syndromes. Wong Ulrich thinks there is also a lot that young people themselves can do to get on top of debt. "First, know how much you owe," she says, "and work out affordable payment plans for student loans and credit cards." She also suggests practicing the art of delayed gratification by "knowing the difference between your needs (rent) and wants (a new iPod)." The most effective weapon against debt, though, may well be developing financial literacy at a young age.

The good news is there are a lot of organizations out there trying to do just that. The financial and business consultancy firm Ernst & Young, for example, has come up with Moneyopoli$®, an online game designed to help teach primary school kids the basics of responsibly earning and spending money. The Jump$tart Coalition for Personal Financial Literacy is also working to improve the financial savvy of young adults. The organization identifies high-quality personal finance materials for educational use in primary schools and high schools and offers a database of resources from the government, businesses and non-profit organizations. Jump$tart has also come up with 12 handy principles-including tips like 'Start saving young' and 'Don't borrow what you can't repay'-for staying solvent. Kids who have learned a bit about debt and credit cards can put on their best game-show grins and test their knowledge with the Credit Card Online Game developed by the Center for Credit & Consumer Research at Penn State Behrend.

Still have questions? Go ask your parents. We all still have a lot to learn.

-- James Geary

Read more about the many online financial education resources for parents and young people.

Mom's Money Lessons

It's hard to underestimate the continuing influence a mother has on a person's life. Whether you see or speak with your mother daily or you now have only the memory of your mother, whether your relationship with your mother was happy or troubled, many things from our early days shape our character. Personalities, outlooks and habits are formed from the interaction children have with the people who raise them. As people grow older, many find themselves doing or saying things that cause them to stop with the funny realization they've just done something exactly the way their mother would have done.

Parents actively teach many money-related ideas and behaviors to their children. Others are passed down more subtly. Some parents let their children help count out the dollar bills and coins needed to pay a bill; others pay the bill with a credit card, letting all the accounting work be done behind the scenes. For some children, allowances are tied to strict budgets; other children are allowed freedom to spend their allowances as they wish. Shopping trips with children may be made with detailed shopping lists, spending limits and careful price comparison, or they may be spontaneous and without a planned budget. Whether each financial transaction includes a discussion between parent and child or is handled without involving the child, children are likely to learn from what their parental figures do.

In his book Secrets of the Millionaire Mind , author and motivational speaker T. Harv Eker recounts a story about a husband who sees his wife cut off and throw away the ends of the ham she is preparing for dinner. The husband asks why she cut off the ends and she replies, "That's how my mom cooked it." When the couple next sees the wife's mother, they ask her about her style of ham preparation. Her reply: "That's how my mom cooked it." They decide to investigate further and call the wife's grandmother. When they ask her why she cut both ends off a ham, her answer is, "Because my pan was too small!" A clever approach to working in a small kitchen became a tradition passed down several generations. It's likely that tradition ended once its origin was found - we can only hope that the grandmother received a surprise gift of a pan fit for a full-sized ham, and that no choice bits of ham were thrown away again.

It pays to take time to think about the money habits you've picked up from the people who raised you. Whether you're happy with the money lessons you learned from the parental figures in your life or if you've decided those lessons aren't leading to the financial situation you would like, becoming aware of why you do certain things can shed light on ways to do those things more effectively.

Survey: From What Source Have You Learned the Best Money Lessons?

There's no shortage of information about how to handle money. Money lessons are learned every day from conversations with family and friends, from employers, from newspaper articles and television shows and from in-depth counseling from CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ certificants and other financial service professionals. Let CFP Board know where you've learned the best lessons. After you have completed the survey, take a look at how you compare to others who answered this question.

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Profile: Mercer Bullard, Founder and President of Fund Democracy

It's no secret that mutual funds are increasingly becoming a dominant part of the investment landscape in America, especially as Americans increasingly rely on self-directed investments to supplement company pensions or provide the main source for retirement funds. It's also no secret that the management of mutual funds can be complicated and confusing. In 2000, Fund Democracy was established by Mercer Bullard to help give mutual fund shareholders a voice in the management and regulation of the mutual funds they own. Read more about Fund Democracy and the progress that has been made to make the mutual fund industry more transparent to its shareholders.

Mercer Bullard will speak about mutual funds at CFP Board's 2006 Annual Meeting on Friday, August 4, 2006, at the Los Angeles Convention Center. General admission is free, but registration is required by July 19, 2006. Read more about CFP Board's Annual Meeting and register online at: www.CFP.net/learn/annualmeeting.asp

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